Kōkua! Hoʻopaʻa mau kaʻu keiki liʻiliʻi i koʻu puʻuwai, he mea ʻino loa ke hele mākou i ka lehulehu. No ke aha ʻo ia e hana nei i kēia (a pehea wau e hoʻōki ai iā ia)?
Me ka ʻike ʻole e pili ana i kāu kūlana kikoʻī, paʻakikī ke haʻi pololei i ke kumu e hana ai kāu keiki i kēia ʻano, akā e hōʻoiaʻiʻo he mea maʻamau loa ia (a ʻaʻohe mea e hopohopo ai).
ʻike e pili ana i ka poʻe i hānau ʻia i ʻOkakopa
ʻO nā keiki i haʻalele i ka waiu i ka waiu e hopu pinepine lākou i nā umauma no ka hana maʻamau. Hana pū lākou i kēia i ka wā i aʻo ai lākou i ka hoʻopili ʻana i nā umauma o ka makuahine me ka hoʻoluʻolu iā lākou iho. A ʻo kekahi wehewehe ʻē aʻe, ʻo kāu keiki liʻiliʻi wale nō ka ʻimi a makemake paha i ke ʻano o kou umauma!
ʻO kēlā me kēia kumu, aia ʻoe ma kahi āu e makemake ai e hoʻōki ka ʻano. No laila, pehea ʻoe e hana ai i kēlā? E hoʻonohonoho i nā palena palena. E haʻi aku i kāu keiki ua hoʻopā ʻo ia i nā umauma o kona makuahine a ʻike i kona ʻano, a i kēia manawa i kona ulu ʻana, ʻaʻohe hoʻopā hou ʻana i nā ʻāpana kino-ma ka lehulehu a i ʻole ma kahi kaʻawale. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēia me ka hāpai mālie ʻana i kona lima mai kou umauma. E kūʻē paha ʻo ia akā noho kūpaʻa (ma ke ʻano aloha, ʻoiaʻiʻo).
ʻO kahi koho ʻē aʻe e hāʻawi i kāu keiki i kahi mea hoʻololi. No kekahi poʻe, ʻo ko lākou manamana nui kēia, akā hiki nō hoʻi he pākeʻe siliki palupalu, uluna, a i ʻole nā holoholona i hoʻopili ʻia. Hiki i kēia mea ke kōkua i ka hōʻoluʻolu i kāu keiki i ka wā e hiamoe ai, hopohopo a huhū paha. Inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hauʻoli i kekahi o kēia mau mea, e ʻike inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoihoi iā ia i kekahi o kou mau pālule keʻokeʻo palupalu kahiko (ʻaʻole holoi ʻia a honi e like me ka makuahine).
Ke laina lalo: ʻAʻole e mau loa kēia ʻano, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i ka pale ʻana ma ke kamaʻilio ākea me kāu keiki a me ka hana ʻana i nā palena kūpono.
ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no nā lehelehe ʻulaʻula maoli
ʻO Kauka Fran Walfish he ʻohana ma Kaleponi a me ka psychotherapist pili a me ka mea kākau o ʻO ka makua ʻike iā ia iho.
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