ʻO ka hapa nui Bachelor Ua ʻōlelo ka poʻe hoʻokūkū makemake lākou e mare i kā lākou hoa aloha, akā ua hana maoli ʻo Dylan, 24, a me Mary-Louise, 26. ʻAʻole, ʻo Dylan lāua ʻo Mary-Louise ʻaʻole kāu mau mea aloha maʻamau i kapa iā lākou iho he mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Aloha nō lākou i kekahi i kekahi, akā ʻo lākou ka mea i kapa ʻia he mau hoa pili. Ma hope o ka noho ʻana ma ke ʻano he platonic pals a me nā hoa noho no ʻelua makahiki ma NYC, ua hoʻoholo lākou e kau ma ka pepa. Lawe lākou i ke kaʻaahi i City Hall, a he ma hope mai, ua kūlana ko lākou moku moku. Kapa mākou he male hoaloha. Eia nā mea a pau e ʻike e pili ana i ke ʻano.
PILI: Hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo ʻAʻole i nā keiki a pau ma kaʻu male mare?
SARAH CLARE SIMONEHe aha maoli ka male hoaloha? (A hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa inoa ma West Elm?) Kahi ma waena o ka male kuʻuna a me Will & Grace ʻO ka male hoaloha, ʻike ʻia ʻo ia ma ke kānāwai he hui ʻohana. ʻO ka launa pū ʻana he ala kūpono loa ia no nā kānaka ʻelua e hōʻike i ka honua ko lākou mānoanoa e like me nā ʻaihue. Nā lula: Pono ʻoe e noho pū, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke mare i kekahi. I ka wā e hele ai kekahi kanaka ma ke ala me kekahi, e hoʻoheheʻe ʻia ka pilina kūloko e like me Marty McFly i ke kiʻi. (A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻokoʻa paha nā kānāwai ma ka mokuʻāina.) ʻO ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka pilina home maʻamau a me ka male hoaloha, ʻo ia hoʻi, me ka mea hope, hoʻolauleʻa nā kāne iā ia e like me ka male maʻamau. A ʻae, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa inoa i nā wahi āu e makemake ai!
ʻAe, akā no ke aha e mare ai i ka hoaaloha? Ua hoʻolālā ʻia nā pilina kūloko (ʻo ia hoʻi ʻo nā uniona kīwila) e hāʻawi i nā hoa kāne like ʻole i nā pōmaikaʻi like ʻole—ka waiwai a me ka waiwai ʻole—e like me nā kāne male ʻole me ka male maoli ʻana (e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole i kānāwai ka male kāne like ʻole a hiki i kēia manawa). Akā ʻo kekahi poʻe, e like me Dylan lāua ʻo Mary-Louise, hoʻokahi wale nō akā makemake mau i nā pono o kahi hui pili kānāwai. E noʻonoʻo i kēia ʻano: He ʻano hoa aloha me nā pōmaikaʻi, akā ma kahi o ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā backrubs a me nā kelepona pio, loaʻa iā lākou ka ʻinikua olakino a me nā kuleana kipa halemai.
A pehea ʻoe e hoʻolauleʻa ai? Akā, makemake ʻoe! Ma ka hihia o Dylan lāua ʻo Mary-Louise, ua loaʻa iā lāua kahi pāʻina hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka pō ma mua me kā lāua hui ma Flatbush (ʻelima mau hoa noho, hoʻokahi lumi ʻauʻau, wow!). Ua loaʻa iā lākou kekahi ʻōmole ʻulaʻula i kapa ʻia Elima Hoa ma kahi hale kūʻai waina kokoke. I ka lā nui, ua ʻaʻahu ʻo Mary-Louise i kahi ʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo a lawe i kahi pua pua.
papa inoa meaʻai Pake me nā kiʻi
SARAH CLARE SIMONEʻAʻole ia he kānāwai maoli * i ka maka o Instagram * me ka ʻole o kahi kiʻi kiʻi nani. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea o nā kiʻi hoʻopaʻapaʻa cheesy a kou hoahānau ma kā Dylan lāua ʻo Mary-Louise. nā kiʻi. E like me ka laki, ʻo kekahi o kā lākou hoa noho he a akamai kiʻi kiʻi a ua paʻi ʻo ia i ka kāne e hele wāwae ana ma Green-Wood Cemetery ma Brooklyn. ʻO nā hopena nā kiʻi #DP maikaʻi loa ma ka pūnaewele. He ʻoiaʻiʻo ke aloha a pēlā pū ka pilina! Howdy Partner, ua kākau ʻia ke kāne kāne ma Instagram me kahi emoji pipi. Ua hāʻule ʻo ia ma ke kuli hoʻokahi. Ua ʻaʻahu ka wahine mare i ka pāpale.
Pehea e loaʻa ai iaʻu kahi Dylan a i ʻole Mary-Louise noʻu iho? E like me nā rom-com maikaʻi, hoʻomaka ia me kahi hui-nani. Ma hope o ka Malaki Wahine ma 2017, ʻo Dylan lāua ʻo Mary-Louise i ka laina ma kahi Starbucks ma Covent Garden, Lākana. I kona lohe ʻana i kāna leo ʻAmelika, nīnau ʻo ia no hea mai ʻo ia a ʻo ke koena ka moʻolelo.
meaʻai maikaʻi loa no ka ʻaina ahiahi
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi, aia ko lākou ʻohana ma luna o ka moku. ʻIke lākou i ko mākou pili kokoke a ke lawe nei mākou i ka maikaʻi o kekahi i kekahi, ʻo Dylan gushed. Hauʻoli loa nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. Manaʻo ka manaʻo o kēia ʻano e hoʻoikaika i nā hoa millennial hoʻokahi e hana like. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā mākou ke manaʻo he 99.9 pakeneka o nā hoa pili home e pili aloha ana kekahi i kekahi. Akā, no ke aha e ʻae ai kēlā mau kāne i ka leʻaleʻa?
PILI: Pehea i mālama ai kekahi wahine mare i ,500 ma kāna wikiō male ʻana me kēia hana hoʻolimalima akamai
