ʻO ka makuakāne o kahi puka kula kiʻekiʻe e hoʻomaka ana i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa makua ma hope o ka haʻi ʻana i kona hauʻoli me nā makemake hope o kāna kaikamahine.
ʻO ka makuakāne, ʻo wai kaʻana like i kāna moʻolelo i ka ʻO Reddit AITA ( Am I The A****** ) forum, wehewehe i ke kumu i manaʻo ai ʻo ia i kāna kaikamahine no ka makemake e hele i ke kula ʻo Ivy League.
Hoʻomaopopo ʻia ʻo ia ma luna o ka mahina, wahi a ka makuakāne no kāna keiki 18 makahiki, i ʻae ʻia i loko Harvard .
Ma kāna pou, ua wehewehe ka makuakāne, ʻoiai ʻo kona haʻaheo no ka hoʻokō ʻana o ka ʻōpio, ua manaʻo ʻo ia e noho kokoke ʻo ia i kona mau mākua a hele i kahi kulanui ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi - akā maikaʻi loa - ma ka mokuʻāina o ka ʻohana.
ʻO kona manaʻo naʻe, me he mea lā e hoʻokaʻawale i nā mākua a me nā mea hoʻopuka o ke kulanui.
'Ua huhū ʻo ia no ka hiki ʻole iā mākou ke hauʻoli nona'
Ua hoʻomau ka Redditor i ka wehewehe ʻana ua koi ʻo ia me kāna wahine i kā lāua kaikamahine e hele i ke kula mokuʻāina, ʻoiai ʻo ia e pili kokoke ana i kāna ʻōnaehana kākoʻo. Eia hou, e mālama ʻo ia i ke kālā he nui ma ke kula a me nā uku.
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He ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia kula [ma ka mokuʻāina] a loaʻa iā ia kahi haʻawina e uku ai i kāna mau haʻawina āpau, me ka ʻole o nā uku a me nā puke, kākau ka makuakāne.
ʻO kāna kaikamahine, ʻoiai, ua manaʻo ʻo ia he mea ʻole ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana, ʻoiai ʻaʻole manaʻo kona mau mākua e uku i kāna hoʻonaʻauao.
Ua huhū kaʻu kaikamahine no ka hiki ʻole iā mākou ke hauʻoli iā ia, a ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻoiai ʻaʻole mākou ka poʻe e uku nei, ʻaʻohe o mākou ʻōlelo, kākau ka makuakāne. Ua maopopo iaʻu kēlā manaʻo ... inā maʻi ʻo ia a ʻeha paha a pono ʻo ia e hoʻi i ka home, e uku mākou i ke kālā a me ka naʻau.
Ua ʻike pū ka makuakāne e ʻaihue ʻia kāna kaikamahine ʻōpio, ʻo ia ka 12, i ke alakaʻi ʻana mai kona kaikuahine inā neʻe ʻo ia i kahi mokuʻāina ʻē.
Manaʻo wau he hoʻoholo paʻakikī a haʻi aku i kaʻu hiapo, akā ʻoi aku ka huhū iā ia, ua hoʻohui ʻo ia.
'E ho'āʻo e hauʻoli nona'
Ma ke kākau ʻana i kekahi mau ʻohana ʻē aʻe e hoʻomaikaʻi ana i kāna kaikamahine me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole i ka hopena, ua nīnau ka makuakāne i nā mea hoʻohana Reddit no ko lākou manaʻo. Nui ka poʻe koʻikoʻi, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana ʻo ka makua kāne, ʻaʻole kāna kaikamahine, ka mea nāna e hana ponoʻī.
Ua manaʻo wau ua huhū wale ʻoe i ke kālā - akā ʻo kāu mau kumu e hoʻolilo maoli iā ʻoe [ka ******], ua kākau kekahi mea hoʻopuka . ʻAʻole ʻo ia ke kuleana no ka haʻalele ʻana i kāna mau moeʻuhane e kōkua i ka hānai ʻana i kona kaikuahine. ʻAʻole kāna kuleana kona kaikuahine - kāu keiki, kāu hana.
ʻAʻohe hewa akā ke kani nei ʻolua he mea paʻakikī a pono e ʻae iā ia e hana i kāna koho ponoʻī, hoʻohui ʻia kekahi . ʻO ka hele ʻana i kahi kula liʻiliʻi ivy āna i hana nui ai no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hana. E hauʻoli wale ʻo ia a e hoʻāʻo e hauʻoli nona.
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ʻO ka poʻe ʻē aʻe, ua ʻoi aku ke aloha, me ka kākau ʻana ua hoʻomaopopo lākou i kahi e hele mai ai ka makuakāne me ka paipai ʻana iā ia e kākoʻo i ke koho a kāna kaikamahine.
Inā ʻo kāna moeʻuhane kēia a hiki ke hana, e hana ʻo ia. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i ka 'pehea inā' a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana hiki iā ia ke hōʻeha / maʻi a pono e hoʻi i ka home, kākau kekahi mea hoʻohana .
Ua komo ʻo ia i kekahi o nā kula maikaʻi loa o ka honua. He mea hoʻoikaika ia i kona kaikaina a ʻaʻole e hoʻonele iā ia i kekahi mea, i koi ʻia e kekahi .
Inā makemake ʻoe i kēia moʻolelo, e nānā I ka ʻatikala a The Know ma ka haumāna nāna i noi ʻia i ka ʻōlelo aʻo ma hope o kona kapa ʻia ʻana he ʻano hōʻino lāhui i kāna papa pūnaewele.
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