Ua hoʻololi maoli ʻo COVID i kā mākou hana ʻana, huh? A ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke kali e hoʻi i ke ola maʻamau, loaʻa iā mākou kekahi mau hanana, e like me ka nui o kā mākou hoʻolilo ʻana i ka male, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana: Pre-COVID, ʻo ka awelika kāne ʻAmelika i hoʻohana ma luna o ,000 ma kā lāua male ʻana. Ke helu ʻoe i ka pāʻani ʻohana hiki ʻole ke ʻike ʻia a me ka nui o nā kikoʻī, hiki ke helu wale ʻia nā kumukūʻai noʻonoʻo. E komo i ka microwedding: He pilina pili (heluhelu: liʻiliʻi) ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka elopement a ma kahi o hoʻokahi piliona mau manawa ʻoi aku ka kaumaha ma mua o ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi huakaʻi huakaʻi ʻeleʻele no 250 ʻuhane-ʻaʻole e haʻi ʻia, ʻo ia wale nō ke koho e mālama i nā mea āpau. Eia pehea e hoʻolālā ai i kāu microwedding ponoʻī a no ke aha ʻo lākou ka manaʻo maikaʻi loa - COVID a i ʻole.
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iwakālua20He aha ka Microwedding?
Ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana e hoʻolālā i kā mākou microwedding, pono paha mākou e wehewehe i ke ʻano. ʻO ka microwedding kahi mea liʻiliʻi o kahi male maʻamau. ʻOiai ʻokoʻa ke ʻano o ka microwedding o kēlā me kēia kāne, ʻo ia ka mea maʻamau e hana ʻia nā mea āpau ma kahi pae liʻiliʻi. No laila, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo e hoʻopaʻa ʻia i loko o ka hale kaʻa me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā tracksuits like (ʻoiai, ʻano maikaʻi kēlā). Akā, ʻo ia ke ʻano o nā mea a pau āu i makemake ai i ka pā nui, akā ma kahi ʻano liʻiliʻi. ʻO ka mea nui loa i ka hana ʻana i kahi microwedding ʻo ka hōʻemi ʻana i kāu papa inoa malihini. No kekahi, ʻo ka hele ʻana mai ka 160 a hiki i ka 16. No ka poʻe ʻē aʻe ke ʻoki nei i ka papa inoa malihini kipa 75 e hoʻokomo i ʻewalu mau lālā pili pili. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe helu paʻakikī, ʻōlelo mākou he helu poʻo o ka microwedding maoli he 20 poʻe a ma lalo a mālama ʻia e kāu mau alakaʻi hōʻuluʻulu kūloko a mokuʻāina. Mai laila mai, ka meaʻai, ka pua, ke mele, ka lole—na ʻoe wale nō.
Nā Pōmaikaʻi o ka Microwedding
1. ʻO ia ke koho palekana loa i ka wā maʻi maʻi COVID-19
Nāu e hana ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe i kāu male ʻana i mea hoʻolaha nui loa ... akā ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe e kali a hiki i ka, ʻo wai ka mea ʻike i ka manawa? E hāhai i nā kapuaʻi o nā kāne i haʻalele i kā lākou mau hoʻolālā kuʻuna no nā microweddings mamao. ʻO kahi pūʻulu liʻiliʻi hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomalu i ka hōʻuluʻulu ʻana ma ka noho ʻana i nā poʻe me ka palekana a noi iā lākou e ʻaʻahu i nā masks i nā manawa kikoʻī (e ʻōlelo, i kēlā me kēia manawa ʻaʻole lākou i kā lākou papaʻaina i hāʻawi ʻia). Manaʻo mākou e wehewehe i kāu mau protocol palekana, e nānā iā lākou me kahi ʻoihana olakino a hāʻawi i nā hana hope loa i kāu mau malihini ma mua a i ka wā o ka hanana.
elua. Hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama i ka papa inoa malihini i ka poʻe e mahalo i kāu mau lula
Makemake ʻoe i kou nana ma ka male ʻana, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kēlā hoa hana e hoʻolaha ana i ka ʻōlelo anti-mask ma kahi kokoke iā ia. Hoʻopili nā Microweddings i kēlā mau ʻano pilikia i ka ʻōpuʻu no ka mea he mau mea liʻiliʻi lākou. Eia kekahi, ʻo kahi papa inoa malihini liʻiliʻi hiki iā ʻoe ke splurge i kekahi mau mea palekana - e like me ka hoʻohui ʻana i kahi mea hoʻokomo i kāu mau kono kono e waiho ana i nā alakaʻi palekana o kāu hanana a i ʻole ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā mākaʻi maʻamau i ka wā e hiki mai ai. Eia hou, manaʻo mākou e hana i ka hana hou e hoʻopili pilikino i kēlā me kēia kanaka e wehewehe i nā lula o kāu ʻākoakoa a ʻike inā ʻae lākou iā lākou. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou, ʻaʻole pono lākou i kāu male ʻana.
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2. Ho'emi ia i ke kaumaha o ka mare
ʻO wai ka mea e pono ai ka hopohopo kālā, ka pilikanaka a me ka logistic e hele mai me kahi fête nui? ʻO ka micro-version o ka male e hoʻemi i ke kaumaha mai nā kihi āpau. E lawe iā Frances S., he luna hoʻomalu o New York City he 29 ona makahiki, nāna i hoʻolālā i kāna male ʻana i ke kauwela he 200 mau kānaka a hiki i ka paʻi ʻana o COVID. Ua hoʻoikaika ka maʻi maʻi iā ia i kāna mau hoʻolālā a hoʻoemi i nā mea a ua hōʻeha maoli ʻo ia i ka hoʻokipa ʻana i ka loli. ʻO wau ke ʻano o ka 'anti-bride,' a ʻo ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi male nui i hāʻawi mai iaʻu i ka hopohopo nui, haʻi mai ʻo Frances iā mākou.
3. ʻO ka papa inoa malihini i hoʻoponopono ʻia
ʻAʻohe pilikia a hoʻopaʻapaʻa paha e kono aku i kēlā me kēia hoahānau a i ʻole ka hāʻule ʻana o ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi kulekele no-keiki. E kono wale i kou mau mākua (a i ʻole!) Ke ʻoki ʻia ka papa inoa malihini e 90 pakeneka, maopopo ka nui o ka poʻe inā ʻaʻole lākou i ʻoki. E lilo ana ʻo ʻAnakē Gloria no ka haʻalele ʻana? E noʻonoʻo i ka hiki ke ʻike - a hauʻoli maoli i ka ʻike ʻana - i kēlā me kēia maka o kāu lehulehu.
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4. ʻO ke kāhiko hiki ke hana
Ke kuko ʻana ma hope o kēlā paʻi paʻi paʻi Palani ma Etsy? Hele i mua. E kūʻai i hoʻokahi a ʻekolu paha. Ke moeʻuhane nei ʻoe i kēlā florist āu i ʻike ai ma Instagram e hana i kahi hoʻonohonoho papaʻaina? Hele i mua. DM iā ia. Ke hoʻonani wale nei ʻoe i hoʻokahi papaʻaina (e noʻonoʻo: he pāʻina ahiahi super-chic) a i ʻole hoʻokahi lumi liʻiliʻi (hey, pono ʻoe i ka hula), pau ka paʻi - ʻoi aku ka nui o kāu ʻeke.
5. ʻO ke kapa komo
ʻO ka hele ʻana ma lalo o ka 'alai' o kahi hale hoʻokolokolo, kahi māla, hale ʻaina a i ʻole kou pā hale ponoʻī ʻaʻole ia e koi i kahi kaʻaahi couture 25-kapuaʻi-a i ʻole nā mahina o nā pono e hele pū me ia. Makemake e ʻaʻahu a lole lele ʻino a la Solange a i ʻole kala kuʻuna ʻole ? E hana i kāu mea. A inā makemake ʻoe i ka ʻaʻahu nui, ʻo ia kāu hoʻoholo e hana pū ai. ʻO ke kumu, ʻo ʻoe ka hoʻomalu ʻana i nā mea, ʻaʻole ka lole lole a i ʻole ka manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. (P.S. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole pono e hoʻoikaika i kāu BFFS i nā lole wahine mare.
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6. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kāu moeʻuhane male
He keke kupaianaha, nā pua moeʻuhane, ka hale kiʻi kiʻi, ka papa mele āu i mālama ai mai ka makahiki ʻeiwa? ʻAʻole pono e hoʻopau ʻia kekahi o kēia mau mea no ka mea ke hoʻolauleʻa nei ʻoe ma kahi ʻano liʻiliʻi. ʻOiaʻiʻo, no ka liʻiliʻi o nā malihini, hiki iā ʻoe ke splurge i nā mea āu e mālama ai me ka ʻole o ka banekorupa, inā he meaʻai i hana ʻia e ka chef a i kāu lei pua. Ua kaupalena ʻia ka wahi, akā i ka hiki ʻana i kāu mau moemoeā male, ʻo ka lani ka palena.
Pehea e hoʻolei ai i kahi Microwedding
1. E hoʻoholo i kāu kālā
E like me ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi soiree 300-kanaka, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kālā i kahi microwedding. No ka laʻana, hele kēia pūʻolo Maliʻi liʻiliʻi no ,750—akā naʻe, ʻelua mau malihini wale nō. No laila, he mea nui e ʻike i kāu mau palena i ka wā e pili ana i kāu ʻeke. ʻO ka mea hoʻolālā male ʻo Jennifer Brisman e hoopau i na koina o ka mare e like me keia: Uku officient (1 pakeneka o ka puu dala), makana no ka ahaaina mare (2 pakeneka o ka puu dala), kokua a me na haawina (2 pakeneka o ka puu dala), kono a me na waiwai pepa (7 pakeneka o ka waihona kālā), nā ʻaʻahu a me nā mea komo (5 pakeneka o ka waihona kālā), nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō (10 pakeneka o ka waihona kālā), nā mele a me nā ʻoliʻoli (12 pakeneka o ka waihona kālā), nā pua a me nā mea hoʻonaninani (13 pakeneka o ka waihona kālā). , kahi hoʻokipa, meaʻai, mea inu a me nā limahana (45 pakeneka o ka waihona kālā).
2. E kūkulu i kāu papa inoa malihini a paʻa iā ia
He mea nui kāu helu poʻo. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hoʻokaʻawale ka poʻe loea male i ka huina ma ke kumukūʻai o kēlā me kēia kanaka. Hōʻike pū kēia iā ʻoe i kahi e hiki ai ke hoʻolilo i kāu kālā. He ʻokoʻa nui nā malihini a me nā malihini he ʻumi ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe i ka hoʻonohonoho papaʻaina a me ka ʻaina ahiahi. A ʻoiai ke makemake nui nei kou ʻanakē Shirley iā ʻoe e kono i ka hoahānau ʻo Ralph, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ka manaʻo o ka microwedding ka mālama ʻana i nā mea pili. Manaʻo ʻo Brisman e hana i kahi lula maʻamau e ʻoki i kāu papa inoa. No ka laʻana, 21 a ʻoi aʻe ʻaʻohe mea hoʻohui inā ʻaʻole ia he koʻikoʻi maoli nā ala maʻalahi e hōʻemi i kāu helu me ka ʻole e hōʻeha i nā manaʻo.
ʻO ka pili ʻana i kāu papa inoa malihini he mea koʻikoʻi nō hoʻi i nā ʻōlelo o ka palekana i ka wā e hiki mai ana iā COVID-19. E hōʻoia e nānā me nā alakaʻi kūloko a mokuʻāina e hahai i nā kauoha hōʻiliʻili. Makemake ʻoe e pae ma kahi helu kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻiliʻili me ke kānāwai a e noho kaawale i ka manawa o na hana mare a pau.
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3. E noiʻi a koho i kahi wahi
ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa e pili ana i kahi microwedding ʻo ia ka nui o nā koho hou aʻe no kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke paʻa iā ia no ka mea ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻimi i kahi lumi kūpono no 150 mau kānaka. Inā paha he pā hale moeʻuhane e hiki ke hoʻonani ʻia me nā kukui fairy, kahi ākea ākea e koʻikoʻi iā ʻoe (e like me kahi paka kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke noi no ka palapala ʻae) a i ʻole kahi hale ʻaina punahele, na kou wahi e hoʻonohonoho i ka leo no ke ahiahi. A ʻo kahi o kēlā leo ka manaʻo o ka poʻe palekana. Loaʻa i kāu wahi nā kulekele hoʻomaʻemaʻe ma kahi o COVID a i ʻole lākou e hoʻopuni ana i ka pilikia? He mea nui ia e aʻo e pili ana i nā pane a kāu mea kūʻai aku iā COVID-ʻoiai inā e lawelawe ana lākou i nā lawelawe meaʻai-a hoʻoholo inā hoʻokō lākou i kāu mau manaʻo.
4. Hana i kahi papa inoa splurge vs. scrimp
Makemake ʻoe e ʻai i kahi pāʻina ʻelima me nā malihini he 12 a i ʻole e mālama i nā mea maʻamau a laila hoʻolei me kahi DJ? E hoʻokahua i ka mea āu e makemake ai e hoʻokaʻawale. No kēlā me kēia kāne he ʻokoʻa kēia, no laila e noho maoli i lalo a e kamaʻilio me kāu hoa e noho ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi-a i ʻole e hoʻopaʻapaʻa. (Ha, male.)
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5. E nānā i nā pāpili kaiaulu
ʻAe, ke hāʻawi aku nei mākou iā ʻoe i ka ʻae e ʻōwili i kāu puʻuwai liʻiliʻi i waho. E hahai i kekahi mau mea paʻi kiʻi mare a i ʻole nā mea hoʻolālā hanana i makemake ʻoe i ka nani a e nānā i nā mea liʻiliʻi - nā ipu aniani, ka papaʻaina momona, nā pua. ʻO kekahi o nā mea maikaʻi loa e pili ana i kahi microwedding ʻo ia no ka mea liʻiliʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i nā kikoʻī a hoʻolilo i ka hoʻomālamalama maoli ʻana i ke ala āu e makemake ai.
6. E ʻaʻahu i ka mea āu e makemake ai e ʻaʻahu (a hāʻawi i kāu poʻe malihini i kahi ʻaʻahu)
Hiki i ka microwedding ke lilo i mea pili ʻeleʻele inā manaʻo ʻoe pēlā! E ʻaʻahu i ka ʻaʻahu pōlele inā ʻo ia kāu ʻike a noi aku i kāu mau malihini e ʻaʻahu maʻamau pū kekahi. A i ʻole, e ʻaʻahu i kahi kākaho Kanada a noi i kāu mau malihini e ʻaʻahu i ka chic cowboy. ʻO ka manaʻo: ʻAʻole no ka mea liʻiliʻi ka manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele nui.
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