Ua hele mākou ma kahi o 4 miliona mau male i nā makahiki i hala iho nei, a ʻo ka hapalua paha o lākou i hoʻokomo i nā hoʻopaʻa inoa honeymoon i hoʻohui ʻia i ka hana maʻamau Crate & Barrel. ʻOiai ʻaʻole mākou i noʻonoʻo ʻelua e pili ana i ia mea, ua hiki mai i ko mākou manaʻo he kumuhana etiquette wela kēia o ka male ʻana me ʻelua mau manaʻo koʻikoʻi: ʻōlelo kekahi he maikaʻi loa ke noi ʻana i nā haʻawina scuba ma Bali… Eia nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua o ka moʻolelo a me kā mākou hopena hope loa.
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Hoʻopili ʻia nā male i nā kuʻuna lōʻihi - inā makemake mākou e hoʻoluliluli, no ke aha mākou e ʻike nei i nā mea he nui nā lole keʻokeʻo e iho mai ana ma ke alahele? A ʻoiai ʻo kahi kākau inoa ma Bloomingdale's me he mea lā he mamao loa ia mai kahi makana i hana ʻia me kahi ʻohana hipa a me ʻekolu mau kālā gula, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o kēia mau lā me ka manaʻo kahiko: Ke hoʻonohonoho nei ka ʻohana a me ke kaiāulu i nā male hou me ke kahua no ko lakou home. I nā lā kahiko, ʻo ia ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka kuleana o nā holoholona (a me ke gula inā he ballin ʻoe). I kēia lā, ʻo ia ka KitchenAid. (ʻAe, kēlā mea ʻo ia ʻO ka mea maʻamau he workhorse a mau loa ʻoe.)
No laila, i ka ʻike ʻana o kou ʻAnakē Linda e loaʻa ana i kāu papa inoa kahi papa hula salsa ma lalo o ke kai me nā manō keʻokeʻo nui ma ke kahakai o ʻApelika Hema, ua like paha ʻo ia, he aha ka mea i loaʻa i ka papa pālahalaha?! ʻOiai he mea ʻole ka iwi Kina i kou nohona o ke kenekulia 21 e like me ka ʻohana hipa, ʻo kahi waihona kālā honeymoon e noi ana i ke kālā no nā mea hoʻonani ʻoi loa ka mea e ʻūlū poʻo ai kekahi mau malihini hilinaʻi kuʻuna i ko lākou poʻo - ʻoi aku ka poʻe e noʻonoʻo iā lākou iho: No ke aha wau e uku nei i kāu hoʻomaha hoʻomaha?
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Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻaoʻao, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kāne ( 89 pakeneka o lākou ) ke noho pū nei ma mua o ka hoʻokō ʻana. No laila, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā kāne i hoʻopaʻa ʻia e pāʻani ana i ka hale ma mua o kou loaʻa ʻana i kahi kono i kā lākou hoʻohiki ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi, ua loaʻa iā lākou ka nui mea . A e nānā kākou: ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole lākou i noi i nā makana, e ʻoluʻolu, e ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o nā mea a pau ma mua o ka hoʻopaʻa inoa honeymoon. A ʻo ka mea koʻikoʻi, he aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kahi huakaʻi mākaʻikaʻi i ka pō ma ka nahele ʻo Costa Rican a me kēlā umu Le Creuset Dutch? ʻO lāua nā mea ʻaʻole i maʻa mau ʻia e nā kāne (a he pipiʻi ko lāua ʻelua).
Akā ʻo ka mea nui ma ʻaneʻi ʻaʻole ia e like me ʻoe hooikaika ana e komo i kāu huakaʻi Thailand. Noho mau ka mana ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka mea hāʻawi, ʻaʻole ka mea i loaʻa. Inā makemake kekahi e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi lako ola o Crisco, ʻaʻole kekahi mea ma kāu papa inoa, nā mana āpau iā lākou. (Akā naʻe nā manamana lima, pili lākou i ka papa inoa.)
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Ma hope o ka nānā pono ʻana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hōʻea mākou i ka hopena ua maikaʻi loa, a me ka mana ʻaʻole tacky, e hoʻonohonoho i kahi kākau inoa honeymoon. ʻOiai ʻO ka Emily Post Institute ʻae: He mea maikaʻi nō hoʻi e hoʻonohonoho i kahi hoʻopaʻa inoa honeymoon (e like me kekahi o kāu mau papa inoa ʻekolu). Ma kahi e hiki ai, wehewehe pehea e hoʻohana ʻia ai nā haʻawina like ʻole: $80: kaʻa hoʻolimalima no kahi lā o Rob e hoʻokele iā mākou ma nā puʻu o Tuscany. No laila, e like me ka ʻōlelo a Ms. Post, e ʻike i ka mea āu e hoʻolilo ai i ke kālā no ka mea ʻo ka noi ʻana i ke kālā pololei e hoʻopau hewa ʻia kekahi o kāu mau malihini. (A inā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi ʻaelike kaʻa hoʻolimalima he $80, e ʻoluʻolu e haʻi mai iā mākou no ia mea.) Ua pani ʻia ka hihia; nā ʻeke i hoʻopili ʻia.
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