I kou male mua ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki i kāu kāne ke hoʻopaʻa lima iā ʻoe. I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻopaʻa i kona mau lima mai kāna kaohi PS4. A ʻoiai ʻo ia e hoʻomaʻamaʻa mau iā ia me he mea lā ʻaʻole ia he mea nui, inā e hoʻopilikia ana kāna pāʻani wikiō i ke ala o kāu pilina, e ʻae kākou: He pilikia kēia. (ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka Hui Ola Ola ʻIke ʻia ka maʻi pāʻani ma ke ʻano he maʻi olakino noʻonoʻo—yikes.) No laila, ua hoʻohui ʻia kāu kāne i nā pāʻani wikiō? Ma mua o kou lawe ʻana i ka hāmare i kāna Xbox, e hoʻāʻo hou i ʻelima, uh, aloha nā ala e hoʻoponopono ai i ka pilikia.
1. E noʻonoʻo i ke kumu o kona manaʻo nui.
ʻO ka manawa hope āu i pāʻani ai i ka pāʻani wikiō ʻo ia… he mau pōʻai o Mario Kart ma ke kulanui. No ʻoe, he mea maʻalahi ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana iā lākou ma ke ʻano he mea hoʻopau manawa ʻōpio. Akā, manaʻoʻiʻo a ʻaʻole paha, ʻo ka mea pāʻani maʻamau he 34 mau makahiki, a he 60 pakeneka o nā ʻAmelika e pāʻani ana i nā pāʻani wikiō i kēlā me kēia lā, hōʻike ʻia e ka Entertainment Software Association. Wahi a kahi haʻawina i hana ʻia e ka Ke Kulanui o Missouri-Columbia ʻOihana Hoʻonaʻauao , pāʻani ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i nā pāʻani wikiō no ʻekolu kumu: e pakele ai i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, ma ke ʻano he pāʻani kaiapili (ʻo ia hoʻi, pāʻani me nā hoaaloha, ʻaneʻane a i ʻole i loko o ka lumi hoʻokahi), a e hōʻiliʻili i nā makana i loko o ka pāʻani (e ʻoluʻolu i nā ala uku like. i loko o ka lolo e pili ana i ka pāʻani a i ʻole ka ʻai ʻana i kahi kuki). Ke ʻike ʻoe ua pili ʻo ia iā Red Dead Redemption no ke kumu like āu e hoʻolohe ai O kēia kākou i kēlā me kēia pule-no ka mea e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻohaʻahaʻa a hoʻomaha ma hope o ka hana-ʻoi aku ka hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha me ke ʻano o kāu hoa hana i kona manawa kaʻawale.
2. E hoʻomaopopo he leʻaleʻa ka pāʻani, ʻaʻole ka ʻenemi.
Ke ʻeha ʻoe, hele ʻoe i ka holo kaʻa kaʻa he ʻumi mile. Ke kaumaha ʻo ia, hoʻopau ʻo ia i kāna Nintendo Switch. Eia naʻe, inā ʻōlelo ʻo ia e hoʻopilikia ana kāu kaʻa kaʻa kaʻa i ke ala o kāu pilina, e ʻakaʻaka paha ʻoe iā ia i waho o ka lumi. A ʻoiai ʻo ka holo kaʻa ʻana e loaʻa nā pōmaikaʻi kino ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ka pāʻani, ua kuleana ʻoe - a paipai ʻia - e loaʻa i kāu mau leʻaleʻa kaʻawale. (ʻO ia ka mea, ʻaʻole pono kāna leʻaleʻa e pale iā ia mai ka hana ʻana i nā kīʻaha a i ʻole ka hele ʻana i ka hale o kou makuahine no ka ʻaina ahiahi i ka manawa, e like me kāu ʻaʻole. pono ʻoe e hoʻoponopono, e maʻalahi ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka pilikia mai kahi wahi i makemake ʻia, a ʻaʻole ia e manaʻo e like me ka nagged a hoʻokomo ʻia i ka pale.
3. E hoʻomaka i ke kamaʻilio ʻana Ma hope Ua Pau ʻo ia i ka pāʻani.
ʻIke mākou, he mea hoʻowalewale ia e haʻi i kou mau manaʻo i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai ʻo ia e pāʻani. (ʻAe, pono ʻoe e pāʻani i kēlā i kēia manawa ? Pono wau iā ʻoe e hana i kahi ukana o ka holoi lole.) Akā e hilinaʻi iā mākou, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia ala. Akā, e kali a hiki i ka wā ma hope, inā ʻaʻohe o ʻolua e hoʻopilikia ʻia, a hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio mālie, he alo a he alo e pili ana.
4. Manaʻo i ka ʻae ʻana.
ʻAʻole makemake mākou e haʻi aku iā ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole e hoʻōki i ka pāʻani wikiō mau loa. (E kala mai.) Akā, e kamaʻilio i kou manaʻo a e wehewehe pono i nā mea e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe. Eia ke ʻano o ke kamaʻilio ʻana:
ʻO ʻoe: Aloha, he kekona kāu?
ʻo ia: ʻOiaʻiʻo, he aha ka mea?
ʻO ʻoe: ʻIke wau makemake nui ʻoe i ka pāʻani wikiō ma hope o ka hana, akā i ka wā e hana ai au i ka ʻaina ahiahi a ʻaʻole ʻoe e nīnau inā makemake wau i ke kōkua, ʻike ʻia iaʻu i ka mahalo ʻole ʻia. ʻIke wau ua luhi ʻoe a makemake e hoʻomaha, akā ua hana wau i ka lā a pau. Inā e kōkua maoli ʻoe iaʻu inā e hoʻokomo ʻoe i ka wā ʻaina ahiahi, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke pāʻani i nā pāʻani wikiō ma hope.
ʻo ia: ʻAe, maikaʻi kēlā. E kala mai ʻaʻole ʻoe i mahalo ʻia, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike.
5. E ʻike i ka wā e loaʻa ai ke kōkua ʻoihana.
Inā ua lilo ka pāʻani wikiō o kāu hoa i loko o ka hoʻohui piha (e noʻonoʻo: e ala pinepine ana ʻo ia i ka pō a pau e pāʻani ana; ke hoʻopilikia nei ia i kāna hana; a i ʻole ʻaʻole ʻo ia e haʻalele i ka hale i nā hopena pule), ʻo ia ka manawa e kāhea i kekahi mau mea hou aʻe. kākoʻo. E kūkākūkā i ke kākāʻōlelo o nā kāne a hoʻopuka i kāu mau pilikia i kahi hālāwai, e paipai ana i kāu kāne e hele mai. Ke loaʻa iā ʻolua ka manaʻo maopopo o ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā maʻamau olakino a maikaʻi ʻole, hiki iā ʻoe ke hele ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi a, inā hoʻokō ʻolua, e hana hou i kahi pilina pili loa.
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