E hoʻolohe iā mākou e kamaʻilio i kēlā me kēia Pōʻalima, ma kahi o The Know's Gibson Johns e nīnauele i kāu mau mea kaulana a me nā mea hoʻoikaika. E kau inoa iā mākou e kamaʻilio maanei .
Ua piha nā mahina he 12 i hala no Rocky Barnes.
Ma waho aʻe o ka lilo ʻana i makuahine i Ianuali i hala a neʻe i kahi hale hou, ke kūkulu ʻia nei, ua hoʻomaka pū ke kumu hoʻohālike i kahi laina lole i kapa ʻia ʻo The Bright Side ma hope o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kāna hōʻiliʻili mua ma muli o ka maʻi maʻi.
Wahi a Barnes, ka mea i hōʻike ʻia ma ka hanana hope loa o In The Know's pop culture interview series Kamailio kakou , ʻo 2020 ka manawa maikaʻi loa nona e hoʻomaka ai i ka hoʻokele makuahine.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki i kēia makahiki ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē. Hoʻopaʻa nā kānaka a pau, no ka mea, ua hāpai nā mea a pau i kēia manawa, ʻakaʻaka ʻo Barnes. He manawa kupaianaha kēia e loaʻa ai kahi keiki. Ma mua o 2020, ke hana nei au me kaʻu kāne ʻo Matt i ʻekolu mau huakaʻi honua i hoʻokahi mahina. […] No ka mea ʻaʻohe mea e hana nei, hiki iaʻu ke hāʻawi wale iaʻu iho i ka manawa piha i kaʻu pēpē a me ka noho pū me ia me ka mālama ʻole ʻana i ka honua, ʻo ia ka manaʻo kupaianaha. Ua hoopau ia i ka'u mau mea hoohihia a pau.
I loko o kā mākou kūkākūkā me Barnes, ua haʻi pū ʻo ia i kona mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka pāʻani influencer naʻaupō, ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea hoʻokani Instagram maoli maoli, pehea ʻo ia e nānā hope ai i ka noho ʻana i loko o ka wikiō mele Boyfriend a Justin Bieber a no ke aha ʻo ia i hoʻoholo ai i ka lole unisex lounge no kāna hōʻiliʻili mua no The ʻaoʻao Bright.
E hoʻolohe iā Rocky Barnes 'āpana piha o Kamailio kakou ma lalo, a e hoʻomau i ka heluhelu no nā mea koʻikoʻi mai ka nīnauele:
E pili ana i nā mea hoʻoikaika i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa: ʻAʻole like nā influencers a pau. E hoʻohālikelike kākou i ka ikaika o ka honua kaulana: Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā Brad Pitts a me nā Cate Blanchetts o ka honua, he mau hōkū kiʻiʻoniʻoni a hana lākou i kā lākou hana ponoʻī. A laila loaʻa iā ʻoe nā Kardashians a me ka poʻe TV maoli, a aia lākou āpau ma ka TV, akā ma nā ʻano ʻokoʻa loa. Aia kahi spectrum. Aia kekahi poʻe he mea hoʻoikaika koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi i nā mea hana ʻike kupaianaha a hiki iā lākou ke kaʻana like i ko lākou honua ma ke ʻano nani maoli, a manaʻo wau he hana maʻemaʻe ia no lākou. A laila aia kekahi poʻe e kaʻana like i ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa me nā mea a pau, a hiki i ka, 'Ua ala wau.' ʻO nā mea āpau. ʻO ke keaka a pau. Aia kahi anaina no nā mea a pau; aia kahi anaina no ka poʻe i hoʻoponopono maoli ʻia, a aia kahi anaina no ka poʻe ʻano TV maoli. Ke inaina wale nei au i ka hui ʻana a pau i hoʻokahi, no ka mea makemake wau e noʻonoʻo i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou leo ponoʻī a he ʻokoʻa loa. ʻO ka poʻe e kāhea ʻia nei a he hana keaka, he naʻaupō loa lākou i manaʻo ai hiki iā lākou ke hana e like me kā lākou hana a ʻaʻole e kāhea ʻia. […] Inā he naʻaupō ʻoe, e kāhea ʻia ʻoe. Hana ʻoe iā ʻoe iho!
Ma kona laina lole, Ka aoao malamalama : He mau hoa ko'u ma Lole Hui Hou , a loaʻa iaʻu kēia mau manaʻo a pau e kōkua lākou i ke ola. He hui kupaianaha koʻu ma hope oʻu. Ua hoʻomaka mākou i kēia ma 2019, a ʻo ka ʻike no ia mea ʻo kaʻu mau moe moe, koʻu lumi moe. He mea hoʻoulu waina maikaʻi loa me kahi kaulike kāne-wahine. Ua manaʻo ʻia he mau lole a me nā ʻaʻahu a me kēia mau mea āu e lawe ai i ka hoʻomaha kauwela. Ua manaʻo ʻia e hoʻomaka i ka lā ʻApelila i hala. ʻIke loa, i ka wā i pā ai ʻo Covid, ʻaʻole kūpono. He ʻokoʻa ke kaiapuni. Hoʻopaʻa mākou i kēlā hōʻiliʻili, a mākou e manaʻo nei e hoʻomaka i kēia pūnāwai/kauwela, a ma kahi o mākou i hoʻolālā ai i kahi hōʻiliʻili i manaʻo ʻia he pololei. He mea hiki i kaʻu kāne ke komo, hiki iaʻu ke ʻaʻahu, hiki i kaʻu pēpē ke ʻaʻahu. Makemake au i ka lole moe hōkele, no laila [makemake wau i ka manaʻo o ka] hana ʻana i kahi lole leʻaleʻa e pili ana i ka lole lole hōkele maʻamau e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke nani loa ma ka home. leʻaleʻa maoli nā paʻi.
I ke komo ʻana i loko ʻO Justin Bieber's Boyfriend mele wikiō : Manaʻo wau he mea ʻakaʻaka. He manawa leʻaleʻa ia iaʻu. ʻO ka mea i ʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa, ʻo koʻu makahiki he 26 i kaʻu hana ʻana i kēlā, a ʻo ia ʻo 18. E lawe wau i mea hoʻomaikaʻi i manaʻo lākou he 17 mau makahiki koʻu. Ua like wau, 'E lawe wau!' ʻO wau, e like me, 8 mau makahiki i ʻoi aku ma mua o ia, no laila he ʻano ʻakaʻaka ʻo wau kāna hoaaloha, akā he ʻakaʻaka maoli. ʻAʻole mākou i ʻae ʻia e hoʻonohonoho i kā mākou kelepona - lawe lākou i kā mākou kelepona āpau a waiho iā lākou - no laila ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke kau i kekahi mea a hana i kekahi mea ma hope o nā hiʻohiʻona. Manaʻo wau i kēlā manawa ua loaʻa iaʻu, like, ʻelua kaukani ka poʻe hahai, no laila ʻo ke kakahiaka nui loa ia, a manaʻolana wau e hāʻawi mai iaʻu i nā mea hahai hou aku, ʻaʻole loa.
I ka hoʻokele ʻana i ka makuahine ma waena o ka maʻi maʻi: ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki i kēia makahiki ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hānau keiki. Ke hopu nei nā kānaka a pau, no ka mea, hāpai nā kānaka a pau i kēia manawa. He manawa kupaianaha kēia no ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi keiki. Ma mua o 2020, ke hana nei au me kaʻu kāne ʻo Matt i ʻekolu mau huakaʻi honua i hoʻokahi mahina. Ua hala mākou ma mua o ko mākou home. Inā e hana mau ana ia - ʻo ka makuahine, ʻoiai he mea kupanaha, aloha wau i kaʻu ʻoihana, no laila ua paʻakikī - ua loaʻa iaʻu ka FOMO weliweli. No ka mea, ʻaʻohe mea e holo nei, hiki iaʻu ke hāʻawi wale iaʻu iho i ka manawa piha i kaʻu pēpē a me ka noho pū me ia me ka mālama ʻole ʻana i ka honua, he manaʻo kupaianaha. Ua hoopau ia i ka'u mau mea hoohihia a pau.
E nānā i kā mākou kūkākūkā piha me Rocky Barnes ma lalo nei.
Inā hauʻoli ʻoe i kēia ʻatikala, e nānā In The Know's hope loa ninaninau me Alexis Ren .
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