Hoʻokahi makahiki aʻu me kaʻu hoaaloha, a ke hoʻomaka nei mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Hoʻopili mākou i nā mea nui e pili ana i ka ʻohana a me ka nohona, akā eia ka pilikia: ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻōlelo, 'Aloha wau iā ʻoe.' Ua ʻōlelo wau i ʻeono mahina i hala. I koʻu nīnau ʻana iā ia, ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike. He mea maʻamau kēia i ka maopopo ʻole ma hope o hoʻokahi makahiki? Ke hopohopo nui nei au no kēia mau kamaʻilio e hiki mai ana.
laau lapaau maoli no ka pimple marks
He pilikia maoli ka waiho ʻana iā ʻoe iho ma laila, a waiho ʻia e kau ana no ʻeono mahina. No laila, ʻo ka mea mua, ke hoʻomaikaʻi aku nei au iā ʻoe no ka hana ʻole ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kahi pilina hauʻoli ʻē aʻe i loko o nā mahina ʻeono mai kāu ʻōlelo ʻana iā ILY.
He mea maʻalahi loa ka hāʻule ʻana i loko o kahi pahele kahi āu e manaʻo ai e manaʻo nā kānaka ʻelua i ka mea like i ka manawa hoʻokahi, a i ʻole e make ka pilina. E like me ka orgasming i ka manawa like a i ʻole makemake e hana i ka manawa like, ʻo ka haʻi ʻana i ke aloha like i ka manawa like ʻo ia kekahi o nā kuhi hewa nui o nā pilina aloha: Ua hoʻokumu ʻia nā pilina kūleʻa i ka manawa kūpono. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻokumuʻia lākou ma ke ahonui, ka hoʻomaopopoʻana, nā kūkākūkā ākea, ka hoʻoponopono pilikia a me ka manaʻoʻiʻo i kāu hoa. Ua hōʻike mua ʻoe ua loaʻa iā ʻoe ka mākaukau e hana i kēia hana.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemake ʻoe e ʻike i kou hoa aloha iā ʻoe; maʻamau kēlā! Akā he nui nā kānaka i hoʻopaʻa ʻia e pili ana i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo. Malia paha ʻaʻole i ʻike mua kāu keikikāne i ke aloha aloha a ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻohālikelike ai. A i ʻole ʻaʻole ia he waha. Eia nā nīnau nui ʻelua e nīnau iā ʻoe iho.
Ke hana nei ʻo ia ma nā ʻano koʻikoʻi?
Manaʻo wau inā e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e pani i ke kamaʻilio ʻana i kēlā me kēia manawa, akā me he mea lā ua kamaʻilio ʻoe a me kāu keikikāne e pili ana i kāna kau ʻana ma ka huaʻōlelo L. Aia kahi ʻokoʻa nui ma waena o ka puhi ʻana i kou mau manaʻo a i ʻole ka haʻalele ʻana i ke kumu ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻōlelo a hoʻāʻo maoli ʻo ia e haʻi i kekahi mau manaʻo paʻakikī no ka mea ua kūpaʻa ʻo ia iā ʻoe e mālama iā ia iho.
Makemake au e ʻike ʻo ia he mea nui iā ʻoe ka lohe ʻana i ka ʻōlelo, a makemake ʻoe e ʻike inā manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hele i laila. Eia naʻe, e hoʻomau i ka hoʻopaʻa inoa. Inā ʻaʻole maopopo ʻo ia i ke ʻano o ka manaʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e wehewehe i ke ʻano āu i ʻike ai ua aloha ʻoe iā ia a i ke ʻano o ke aloha iā ʻoe. Inā ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma kāna ʻano o ka wā mau loa, he mea maikaʻi kēlā. Inā hoʻopaʻa ʻo ia me ʻoe-e hoʻolauna iā ʻoe i ka ʻohana, lawe pū i kahi ʻīlio, neʻe pū i loko, hana i nā hoʻolālā huakaʻi makahiki, no ka laʻana-ʻo ia ka alahele e aloha.
E nānā i nā hōʻailona. A ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i ka palekana a i ʻole ka hopohopo, e wehe i ke kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka holo ʻole.
Manaʻo ʻoe i aloha ʻia e ia?
Maopopo iaʻu he mea nui nā ʻōlelo iā ʻoe. Akā, e noʻonoʻo kākou e pili ana i ke kiʻi nui aʻe ma aneʻi: manaʻo anei ʻoe i aloha ʻia? Makemake ʻo ia e mālama ʻia ʻoe? Makemake ʻo ia i kou ola, hauʻoli a maikaʻi? He manawalea anei ia? He lokomaikaʻi ʻo ia? Noonoo anei oia?
palapala 'ai kūpono no ka poho kaumaha
Nui nā ʻano o ke aloha. I kekahi manawa, ua kamaʻilio ʻia ma ka waha, ʻo ia ka mea a ke kaiāulu e kau ai ma luna o kahi paepae a ola ʻole ma o John Cusack e haʻi ana i kāna aloha me kahi pahu boombox ma luna. Akā ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei au i ke ʻano o ke aloha maʻemaʻe, paʻakikī i ka hoʻopunipuni, ʻo ia ke ʻano i kamaʻilio ʻia ma ke ʻano o nā hana. Inā hoʻopiha ʻo ia i kāu pahu hau i ka hoʻoilo no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e kū ʻoe i waho i ke anuanu, a i ʻole e hana ʻo ia iā ʻoe i ka ʻaina ahiahi ke hana ʻoe i ka pō ... manao haahaa.
ʻO nā ʻano hana ka mea nui loa. Paha 'oe manaʻo ke aloha mai iaia mai? ʻO ka mālama? ʻO ka noʻonoʻo a me ka hoʻokō? Aia paha ke aloha, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike loa. Akā naʻe.
Hāʻawi manawa. E kamaʻilio mau no ia; Manaʻo wau e hele ʻo ia i laila. I kēia manawa, e hoʻoponopono hou i kou kūlana. E ʻike paha ʻoe ua haʻi mua ʻo ia iā ʻoe ua aloha ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
ʻO Jenna Birch he mea kākau moʻolelo, haʻiʻōlelo , a me ka mea kākau o The Love Gap: A Radical Plan to Win in Life and Love , he alakaʻi hoʻoikaika pili no nā wāhine hou. No ka nīnau ʻana iā ia i nīnau, hiki iā ia ke pane ma kahi kolamuPampereDpeopleny e hiki mai ana, leka uila iā ia ma jen.birch@sbcglobal.net .
