Loaʻa i nā keiki a pau nā manawa e manaʻo ai ʻoe he makua ʻole loa (e like me, e ʻōlelo, i ka wā e holo ai kāu keiki ʻehā makahiki i luna a i lalo i nā keʻena o ka hale hānai o kou kupuna wahine e ʻuā ana 'No ke aha ka nui o ka poʻe KAHIKO ma ʻaneʻi?'). A ʻo kēlā me kēia wā kamaliʻi e hōʻailona ʻia e nā ʻāpana ʻōpala (nānā: papa ʻelima a ʻewalu). Akā inā e hoʻomaka ana ka noho ʻana o ka ʻohana e like me hoʻokahi manawa paʻakikī pau ʻole, hiki ke kōkua nā mea makua. Eia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā puke mai nā mea maikaʻi loa.
PILI : ʻO 7 mau puke makua pono loa
Hoʻonohonoho i nā palena me kāu keiki manaʻo ikaika
No: ʻO ka mea manaʻo e like me kāna keiki ʻaʻole hoʻolohe
Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e kīpē mau a hoʻopaʻi paha i kāu keiki (i kekahi manawa ma ka ʻōlelo hoʻokahi) i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻokele i kāna ʻano, nou kēia. Manaʻo ʻo Robert J. MacKenzie psychologist hoʻonaʻauao e kōkua i nā mākua e uhai i ka pōʻai o ka mea āna i kapa ai ʻo ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole o ka hoʻopaʻi a me ka ʻae ʻana. Pehea? Ma ka unuhi ʻana no mākou i nā mea a nā keiki e lohe ai ke ʻōlelo nā mākua. A ma ke aʻo ʻana i nā mākua i ka hana kūpaʻa, manaʻo ʻole, a me ka hana paʻa e pono ai i hoʻokahi tausani ʻōlelo noiʻi, ʻōlelo hoʻoweliweli.
Na Aina Hooponopono
No ka: Makaʻu nā mākua i ka huhū hou
Kākau ʻia e ka mea lapaʻau ʻoihana ma ke ʻano he kumu e hoʻoulu ai i ka hoʻoponopono ponoʻī a loaʻa ka mana o ka naʻau, ʻo kēia puke ke kumu gula no nā kumu aʻo a me nā psychologist kula. ʻAʻole ia e hāʻawi wale i nā ʻōlelo aʻo anecdotal; hōʻike mai ia i kahi ʻōnaehana e kamaʻilio me nā keiki e pili ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo. Ma ʻaneʻi, ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia ke ʻano o ka naʻau (inā ʻoe i ka ʻāpana ʻulaʻula, huhū ʻoe, hopohopo, pahū; aia ʻoe i ka ʻāpana ʻōmaʻomaʻo, ʻoluʻolu ʻoe, noʻonoʻo a mākaukau e aʻo). Hāʻawi ia i nā mākua a me nā keiki i ʻōlelo hou koʻikoʻi no ka hōʻike ʻana—a me ka mālama ʻana—i ko lākou manaʻo.
E kūʻai i ka puke
PILI : Eia ke kumu e hoʻohenehene ai kāu keiki liʻiliʻi
ʻīlio laʻa loa ma ka honua
ʻO ke keiki i waho o ka Sync
No: Ke hopohopo nei kekahi i nā mea ʻike
Manaʻo kekahi poʻe lapaʻau ʻoihana ʻo nā pilikia o ka hana - mai ka impulsivity a i ʻike ʻole ʻia i ka wahi pilikino o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka ʻai ʻana i ka pāʻani kiʻekiʻe i ka makemake mau i ka hoʻoikaika kino e like me ka wili a i ʻole ka hāʻule ʻana - he mau hōʻailona paha ia o Sensory Processing Disorder. He kumuhana hoʻopaʻapaʻa. Akā, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kumu, a me kahi mea hiki ke hana, no ka hana paʻakikī o kahi keiki hiki ke manaʻo he makana.
Ke Keiki Paʻakikī
No: ʻO ka mea i nīnau iā ia iho: He mea maʻamau kaʻu keiki?
Ua hoʻokumu ʻo Kauka Kauka Stanley Turecki i kahi papahana ma NYC's Beth Israel Hospital i kapa ʻia ʻo The Difficult Child Program. (Pehea kou makemake poe ʻO ia ka manaʻo i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā mākua, ʻae a hana pū me ke ʻano o kā lākou keiki - kahi ʻano maoli i hānau ʻia iā mākou a pau: No ka lilo ʻana i makua akamai pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo a ʻae i kāu keiki no ke kanaka maoli ʻo ia (ʻaʻole. ke keiki āu i makemake ai e loaʻa iā ʻoe) a e hana i kāu mea maikaʻi loa e hoʻololi i kou ʻano makua i ke ʻano a me ka hiki o kāu keiki, kākau ʻo ia. A, ʻo ka mea nui loa, ua hoʻohui ʻo ia: ʻokoʻa loa ʻo 'Difficult' mai ka 'abnormal.'
Ke keiki lolo holoʻokoʻa
No: ʻO kēlā me kēia makua e hakakā nei e hoʻomaopopo i kahi e hele mai ai kāna keiki
Ma ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka moʻolelo neurological ma hope o kā mākou mau keiki ʻoi loa ka huhū, manaʻo ka psychiatrist ʻo Dr. Dan Siegel e hoʻokaʻawale i nā meltdowns a me ka hōʻeha ʻana, e wehewehe ana i ka ʻepekema hou o ke ʻano o ka lolo o ke keiki a me ke ʻano o ka ulu ʻana. Inā hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo pono i kā lākou ʻano, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā mākou iho - kī e kōkua iā lākou e ʻoluʻolu.
ʻōlelo e pili ana i ke kōkua ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe
PILI : 11 Nā hōʻailona He Super Sensor paha kāu keiki
