ʻO nā pono o nā hana: 8 mau kumu e hāʻawi ai ʻoe iā lākou i kāu mau keiki i kēia manawa

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Nūhou maikaʻi no nā mākua - ʻōlelo ka poʻe noiʻi he nui nā pōmaikaʻi o nā hana, e pili ana i kāu mau keiki. (A, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō ka ʻoki ʻia ʻana o ka mauʻu.) Eia, ʻewalu mau kumu e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou, a me ka papa inoa o nā hana i kūpono i nā makahiki inā ʻelua a 10 paha kāu keiki.

PILI: 8 mau ala e hiki ai i kāu mau keiki ke hana maoli i kā lākou mau hana

1. E holomua paha kāu keiki

I ka manawa a Kauka Marty Rossmann mai ke Kulanui o Minnesota ʻikepili i kālailai ʻia mai kahi haʻawina lōʻihi Ma hope o nā keiki 84 i nā manawa ʻehā o ko lākou ola ʻana, ua ʻike ʻo ia i ka poʻe i hana i nā hana i ko lākou wā liʻiliʻi i ulu aʻe i ka holomua ma ka ʻoihana a me kā lākou ʻoihana mua. ʻO ia kekahi ma muli o ka manaʻo o ke kuleana o kāu munchkin liʻiliʻi e pili ana i ka wehe ʻana i ka mea holoi ipu e noho pū me ia i kona ola a pau. Eia naʻe ka hopena: Ua ʻike ʻia nā hopena maikaʻi loa i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai nā keiki e hana i nā hana hale ma ʻekolu a ʻehā paha makahiki. Inā hoʻomaka lākou e kōkua i ko lākou wā ʻelemakule (e like me 15 a i ʻole 16) a laila ua hoʻihoʻi nā hopena, a ʻaʻole hauʻoli nā mea komo i nā pae like o ka kūleʻa. E hoʻomaka ma ka hana ʻana i kāu keiki e waiho i kāna mau mea pāʻani a laila e hana i nā hana nui e like me ka ʻohi ʻana i ka pā i ko lākou ulu ʻana. (Akā, e leʻaleʻa ʻia ka lele ʻana i nā puʻu lau i kēlā me kēia makahiki).

2. E hauʻoli lākou i nā mākua

He mea paʻakikī ke manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā hana i nā keiki e hauʻoli ai lākou, akā e like me kekahi longitudinal Haʻawina kula ʻo Harvard , hiki wale. Ua kālailai nā mea noiʻi i nā mea komo 456 a ua ʻike ʻo ka makemake a me ka hiki ke hana i ka wā kamaliʻi (ma ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hana hapa manawa a i ʻole ka hana ʻana i nā hana hale, no ka laʻana) ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka wānana o ke olakino noʻonoʻo i ka wā makua ma mua o nā kumu ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka papa kaiaulu a me nā pilikia ʻohana. . E ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā i ka wā e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lohe i kāu ʻōpio e uē ana i ke kani o ka mea hoʻomaʻemaʻe.

3. E Aʻo ʻia lākou pehea e mālama ai i ka manawa

Inā he nui nā haʻawina home a kāu keiki e hana ai a i ʻole kahi moe i hoʻonohonoho mua ʻia e hele ai, hiki ke hoʻowalewale ʻia e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi kaʻa manuahi i kāna mau hana. Akā ʻo ka dean mua o nā freshmen a me ka lae aʻo ʻana ma ke Kulanui ʻo Stanford Julie Lythcott-Haims aʻo kūʻē iā ia. E koi ana ke ola maoli iā lākou e hana i kēia mau mea a pau, wahi āna. Ke hele lākou i kahi hana, aia kekahi mau manawa e hana lohi ai lākou, akā pono lākou e hele i ke kūʻai hale kūʻai a hana i nā kīʻaha. ʻAʻohe huaʻōlelo e pili ana i ka hana ʻana i nā hana e alakaʻi i kēlā haʻawina Ivy League.

4. E ʻike lākou i ka piʻi ʻana o ka ulu ʻana o ka lolo

ʻAe, ʻo ka waiho ʻana i nā mea kūʻai a i ʻole ka weeding i loko o ka māla i manaʻo ʻia he mau hana, akā ʻo lākou ka segue kūpono loa i nā lele aʻo nui e hoʻoulu ʻia e nā hana e pili ana i ka neʻe ʻana, wahi a Sally Goddard Blythe ma Ke Keiki Kaulike Pono . E noʻonoʻo i kēia ʻano: ʻO ka wā kamaliʻi ke ulu ikaika a hoʻololi ʻia ka anatomy hana o kou lolo, akā ʻo nā ʻike lima lima, ʻoi aku ka paʻa ʻana i ka hana kino e pono ai ka noʻonoʻo ʻana, he ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o ia ulu. He laʻana: Inā hoʻonohonoho kāu keiki i ka papaʻaina, ke neʻe nei lākou a waiho i nā papa, nā mea kālā a me nā mea hou aku. Akā, ke hoʻohana nei lākou i nā mākau hoʻonaʻauao a me ka makemakika ola maoli i ko lākou hoʻopili ʻana i kēlā me kēia wahi hoʻonohonoho, helu i nā lako no ka helu o ka poʻe ma ka papaʻaina, a pēlā aku.

5. E loaʻa iā lākou nā pilina maikaʻi

Ua ʻike pū ʻo Kauka Rossmann ʻo nā keiki i hoʻomaka i ke kōkua ʻana a puni ka hale i ka wā ʻōpiopio, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pilina me ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha i ko lākou wā ʻelemakule. Ma muli paha o ke aʻo ʻana o nā hana o ka hale i nā keiki e pili ana i ke koʻikoʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana aku i ko lākou ʻohana a me ka hana pū ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o ke aloha e like me nā pākeke. Eia kekahi, e like me ka hiki i ka mea male ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka lilo ʻana i mea kōkua, mea hoʻomaʻemaʻe a me ka sock-putter-away-er hiki ke lilo ʻoe i hoa makemake ʻoi aku.

ʻeke maka no nā pimples a me nā ʻeleʻele

6. E ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mālama kālā

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pāʻani me kāu mau hoaaloha a nānā paha i ka TV a hiki i ka hana ʻana i kāu mau hana e aʻo ai i nā keiki e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻi a me ka hoʻomalu iā ʻoe iho, a laila hiki ke alakaʻi i ka ʻike kālā hou aku. Wahi a a ʻO ke kula ʻo Duke University Ua hahai nā keiki 1,000 ma New Zealand mai ka hānau ʻana a hiki i ka makahiki 32 a ʻike i ka poʻe me ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻokele kālā. (No ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā hana i kahi haʻawina, makemake paha ʻoe e hoʻokele pono, no ʻO ka ʻAkelanika , no ka mea hiki iā ia ke hoʻouna i kahi leka kūʻē e pili ana i ke kuleana ʻohana a me ke kaiāulu.)

PILI: ʻEhia ka nui o ka haʻawina e loaʻa i kāu keiki?

7. E mahalo lākou i nā pono o ka hui

ʻO ka home hauʻoli he hale hoʻonohonoho. ʻIke mākou i kēia. Akā ke aʻo nei nā keiki i ka waiwai o ka ʻohi ʻana iā lākou iho a me ka mālama ʻana i nā mea a lākou e paʻa ai a aloha. ʻO nā hana — e ʻōlelo, e pelu ana a waiho i kā lākou holoi lole ponoʻī a i ʻole ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka mea e lawelawe ana i ka hana kīʻaha—ʻo ia ka wahi lele maikaʻi loa e kōkua ai i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi hana maʻamau a me ka hoʻolaha ʻana i kahi kaiapuni ʻole.

8. E aʻo lākou i nā mākau waiwai

ʻAʻole wale mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea maopopo e like me ka ʻike ʻana i ka mop i ka papahele a i ʻole ka ʻoki ʻana i ka lau. E noʻonoʻo: E ʻike i ka hana kemika ma ke kōkua ʻana i ka kuke ʻana i ka ʻaina ahiahi a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana e pili ana i ka biology ma ka hāʻawi lima ʻana i ka māla. A laila aia kēlā mau mākau koʻikoʻi ʻē aʻe e like me ke ahonui, ka hoʻomau, ka hana hui a me ka loina hana. E lawe mai i ka papa hana.

Nā hana i kūpono i nā makahiki no nā keiki mai ka makahiki 2 a hiki i ka makahiki 12:

Nā hana: Nā makahiki 2 a me 3

• E kiʻi i nā mea pāʻani a me nā puke
• Kōkua i ka hānai ʻana i nā holoholona
• E hoʻokomo i ka holoi lole i loko o ka hamper ma ko lākou lumi

Nā hana: 4 a me 5 makahiki

• Hoʻonohonoho a kōkua i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka papaʻaina
• Kōkua e waiho i nā mea kūʻai
• E puhi i ka lepo (hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i ka sock)

Nā hana: 6 a 8 makahiki

• Wehe i ka ʻōpala
• Kōkua i ka momi a me ka mop papahele
• E pelu a waiho i ka lole holoi

Nā hana: 9 a 12 makahiki

• E holoi i nā kīʻaha a hoʻouka i ka mea holoi ipu
• E hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka lumi ʻauʻau
• E hana i ka mea holoi a me ka mea maloʻo no ka holoi lole
• Kōkua me ka hoʻomākaukau meaʻai maʻalahi

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