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Hoʻoikaika a hoʻoulu ʻia nā keiki e ka hana a ko lākou mau mākua. ʻO kahi keiki i ʻike i kona mau mākua e noho mālie ana a hilinaʻi paha e ulu a lilo i kanaka hilinaʻi iā ia iho. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo kahi keiki a nā mākua e hakakā mau ana a ʻuwā nei, ʻaʻohe kānalua e loaʻa nā ʻano like. Ma hope o nā mea pono ʻole e ʻōlelo aʻe hiki i ka lawena o nā mākua ke hoʻopili i ke ʻano o ke keiki.
No laila, hopohopo mau nā mākua i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi hānai maikaʻi loa i kā lākou keiki, ʻaʻohe mea. ʻAʻole lākou e waiho i kahi pōhaku i ka hāʻawi ʻana i ke aloha nui i kā lākou poʻe keiki a ʻo kēia ke kumu no ka maka o nā keiki nā keiki.
E heluhelu pū kekahi: 8 ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua e hoʻopakele i kā lākou keiki mai ka lilo ʻana i mea ʻenehana
Akā i kekahi manawa aia kekahi mau mākua i hiki ʻole ke aloha i kā lākou keiki. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻomaopopo i nā pono naʻau o kā lākou keiki. ʻĀ, ua helu mākou i kekahi mau kumu i hiki ke haʻi i ke kumu e hoʻomaopopo ʻole ai nā mākua i nā pono o ka manaʻo o kā lākou keiki ponoʻī.
1. Nā pilikia i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia o ka wā i hala
Inā he paʻakikī i hala i kekahi kanaka a ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokuʻi iā ia a laila hiki i ke aloha ʻole i loko o kēlā kanaka. Inā ua komo ke kanaka i ka wā makua ke hele ʻo ia i loko o kahi trauma a i ʻole inā ʻike ke kanaka i ka ʻeha i ka wā o ka makua a laila hiki i kēia ke lilo kekahi o nā kumu no ke aloha ʻole i nā keiki. Hiki i kaʻeha manaʻo ke hōʻoki i kēia mau mākua mai ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ke aloha no kā lākou keiki.
2. Uneasiness i ka hōʻike pololei ʻana i ke aloha
ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu nā kānaka āpau i ka hōʻike ʻana i ke aloha i kahi ala pololei. ʻO kahi laʻana, manaʻo paha ke kanaka i ka pīhoihoi i ka hōʻike ʻana i ke aloha i kā lākou keiki e ulu ana. Eia kekahi, inā he pilikia ko ka makua ponoʻī e pili ana i ka hōʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo i ka wā kamaliʻi a laila hiki i ka manawa kiʻekiʻe ke hiki ʻole iā ia ke hōʻike i ke aloha i kāna keiki.
3. Ke hoʻomohala nei i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole
ʻAʻole hiki i ke kanaka i hiki iā ia iho ke aloha iā ia iho ke aloha iā haʻi. Hele i waho o ka ʻōlelo ʻana inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe iho ke mālama iā ʻoe iho a ʻae paha iā ʻoe iho a laila ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e ʻae i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
No laila, ʻo kēlā mau mākua e kuhi nei iā lākou iho he hiki ʻole ke aloha iā lākou iho hiki ʻole ke hāʻawi i ke aloha i kā lākou keiki. Eia kekahi, ʻo kēlā mau mākua i hoʻonele ʻia i ke aloha a me ke aloha i ka wā e ulu ana, ʻaʻole paha e hiki ke hāʻawi like i kā lākou keiki.
E heluhelu pū kekahi: Ke nānā pono ʻana i kāu mau keiki e pono ai, akā pono nā makuahine i kā lākou 'manawa' mua
4. ʻO ka makemake e loaʻa kālā hou
Aia kekahi poʻe i ka makemake pau ʻole e loaʻa kālā hou aʻe. Hoʻonui mau ka makemake i ka manawa a hoʻomaopopo hoʻi ʻaʻole hiki i ke kālā ke kūʻai i ka manawa a me ka hauʻoli. ʻOiai lākou e lilo i mau mākua a ʻike he pono lākou e lilo i ka manawa maikaʻi me kā lākou poʻe keiki ma muli o ko lākou kuko, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou iho mai ka loaʻa kālā ʻana.
Makemake paha lākou e hana no ka lā holoʻokoʻa inā ʻike lākou he pono i kā lākou poʻe keiki ke kū i ke kino i ka home. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolilo i ka manawa kūpono me kā lākou keiki e hoʻokumu i kahi paʻa o ke aloha a me ke aloha.
5. Loaʻa i nā pilikia i ke ola male
Inā paha inā e hele ana kahi kāne i hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia hou me kahi keiki i ka pilikia o ka male, hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i ke koʻikoʻi a me ka huhū i waena o kēlā mau mākua. ʻOiai inā aloha lākou i kā lākou keiki, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike i ka mea like. Hoʻ mamao aku paha lākou iā lākou iho mai kā lākou keiki a no laila, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokō i nā manaʻo naʻau o kā lākou keiki.
6. haʻalele i nā kuleana
Hiki i nā mākua ke mākua ʻole ke hoʻomaopopo i ka pono o ka naʻau o kā lākou keiki. Manaʻo paha lākou he like nā keiki me nā kuleana ʻē aʻe a lākou e hoʻokō ai. Eia nō naʻe, ʻoi aku ke kuleana o nā keiki. I kekahi manawa, manaʻo paha kēia mau mākua hiki i nā keiki ponoʻī ke mālama iā lākou iho a no laila, ʻaʻohe mea e hopohopo ai.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hana makua ʻana. Loaʻa iā ia kahi ʻano o nā pilikia a me nā pilikia. Akā me ke ahonui, hoʻomanawanui a hoʻokō i nā pono e pono ai kāu mau keiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i makua makua maikaʻi.
