Inā male ʻoe i kahi Aries me nā hiʻohiʻona hipa maʻamau (paʻakikī, obvs, akā hoʻokūkū hoʻi, hilinaʻi, ambition, optimism, outspokenness), aia ʻoe i kahi kaʻa. Inā male ʻoe i kekahi me lākou a pau, a laila, he ʻōleʻa kaʻa kēlā holo. ʻAʻole loa e luhi ke ola me kahi Aries. Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka piʻi a me ka lalo.
iwakālua20Inā male ʻoe iā Bossy McBosserton, Luna Nui o ka ʻohana
Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia iā ia iho (to put it mildly). He alakaʻi hānau maoli ʻo ia i ʻike i ka lawe ʻana. Paʻakikī ʻo ia me he hipa kāne lā. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia e noi i ke kōkua (a i ʻole nā kuhikuhi) no ka mea paʻakikī loa ʻo ia. E nānā hoʻi: hoʻomanawanui a wikiwiki i ka huhū. Hiki ke wela kēia mau ʻano alpha āpau i ka wā mua-ʻaʻole lākou e kapa ʻia he hōʻailona ahi no ka mea ʻole-ʻoi loa inā ʻaʻole i kuhikuhi ʻia kāu mau hoa hope loa i ka ʻoihana hilinaʻi. Akā, ʻo kāu pahuhopu ka lilo ʻana i hoʻokahi hapalua o nā kāne mana, ʻaʻole kākoʻo i nā limahana a i ʻole nā mea pepehi alanui. Hiki ke puka mai ke kaumaha ke manaʻo ʻoe he liʻiliʻi a emi ʻole ka ikaika ma mua o ke kanaka āu e kamaʻilio nei, kākau ʻo Kauka Susan Heitler i ka loea pili a me ka psychologist. Ma ka pilina aloha ma waena o nā mākua ʻelua, ʻoi aku ka olakino o ka mana like. ʻO ke ala wikiwiki loa e hoʻihoʻi hou i ka mana i ka wā o ka hakakā. ʻO ka lula mua o ke koʻokoʻo i ke alo o kahi kanaka paʻakikī, ʻo ia ka mālama ʻana i kou ʻoluʻolu, wahi a hoʻokahi kumu ola. ʻO ka liʻiliʻi o kou hoʻonāukiuki i nā hoʻonāukiuki, ʻoi aku ka hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kāu hoʻoholo maikaʻi e hoʻoponopono ai i ka paʻakikī.
iwakālua20Inā male ʻoe i ke ʻano ikaika a hāmau
Maikaʻi ʻo ia a kūpono hoʻi i kāna kumu, kūpaʻa e like me ka Labrador a me ka naʻau mālie (hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo). Akā inā kanu ʻo ia i kona mau manaʻo hohonu, pono ʻoe i kahi PhD i ka geology e ʻeli iā lākou. ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi, ʻōlelo ka poʻe kilo, aia ʻo ia i loko o ke aloha. Pono ʻoe e kōkua e huki iā ia. Pehea? Ma ka noho maikaʻi, hāmama a kūpaʻa. E ho'āʻo paha ʻo ia e hoʻokuke iā ʻoe a haʻi aku paha iā ʻoe ua maikaʻi ʻo ia a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe i kāu kōkua, akā ke noi aku nei au iā ʻoe e hoʻomau i ka hoʻomau, kākau ʻo Christian Brown loea pili i ke kumuhana o nā kāne repressed. Ma hope o nā mea a pau e pili ana ʻoe i kahi maʻamau o ke kaiāulu. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo e lilo i mea paʻakikī a paʻa paha iā ia. ʻO ia hoʻi, e aʻo aku iā ia i ka wā e loaʻa iā ʻoe kona kua. Hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi iā ʻoe e like me ke kanaka ʻē aʻe ma kēia honua. E ʻike ʻoe i kona ikaika a me kona nāwaliwali a aloha ʻoe iā ia e like me ia.
Inā male ʻoe i kahi mea ʻaʻa
Aloha ʻoe he makaʻu ʻole ʻo ia, extroverted, lokomaikaʻi a me ka manawaleʻa. Nānā mau ʻo ia i ka ʻaoʻao ʻālohilohi ('ōlelo kou makuahine no ka mea ua kau ʻo ia i nā makapō). Akā, hoʻokaʻawale ʻo ia iā ʻoe mai kou wahi ʻoluʻolu a hoʻoikaika iā ʻoe e hana i nā mea e like me skydive, scuba dive a luʻu paha i loko o kahi ʻaelike Airbnb me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i nā kuhikuhi he nui. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia kahi laina maikaʻi ma waena o ka lawe ʻana i ka pilikia olakino a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole. Ke hoʻopili ʻia kou wā e hiki mai ana—ke kālā, ʻoihana, ʻohana—me kekahi e pāʻani ana i kahi pāʻani weliweli, iā ʻoe ke hana i nā hana palekana. A i ʻole, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e like me ia. Inā makemake mākou i ke aloha hou aʻe, pono mākou e lanakila i ka makaʻu, kākau ʻo ka ʻepekema kanaka ʻo Arthur C. Brooks i loko ʻO ka New York Times . Pono mākou e lawe i nā pilikia pilikino no nā uku aloha aloha. E poina i ka hoʻokolo ʻana i ka pilina no nā makahiki he ʻumi, a i ʻole ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi mea i kūpono loa e like me ke kaikunāne. He mea weliweli iki ke aloha no ka mea maopopo ole... ʻO ka wiwo ʻole ka manaʻo i ka makaʻu o ka hōʻole ʻana a me ka nalowale akā ʻo ka hahai ʻana i ke aloha.
