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Inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi mea i loaʻa ʻole i ka ipo wahine, ʻike mākou ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i nā kumu ma hope o ia. Ua hoʻāʻo paha kekahi o ou e ʻimi i ke kōkua o kāu mau hoaaloha i ka ʻike ʻana i nā kaikamahine a puni ʻoe. Ua hele paha ʻoe i nā lā he nui a ua hoʻāʻo paha i nā paepae pili pūnaewele.
ʻOiai inā hana ʻoe i ipo wahine, ʻaʻole hele aku kāu pilina ma mua o kekahi mau pule a i ʻole mau mahina. Ma kahi o ka hoka a me ka waiwai ʻole, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i nā kumu ma hope o ia. ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻimi i nā kumu i kāu polokalamu kele pūnaewele. Hiki iā ʻoe, ke ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hele ma waena o ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma lalo e kōkua iā ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana i ke kumu o ka loaʻa ʻole o kāu ipo wahine.
1. ʻAʻole ʻoe i hele mai ma ʻō aku o ke kaikamahine kūpono
ʻO kēia paha kekahi kumu no ke aloha ʻole o kāu ipo wahine. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe i hui me ke ʻano o ke kaikamahine āu e makemake ai. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā makemake ʻoe e launa me kekahi i loaʻa kahi ʻano mālie a akahai, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe i ʻike i kekahi kaikamahine e like me ia. A i ʻole hiki paha iā ʻoe ke maopopo ʻole e pili ana i kāu ʻano. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike i ke ʻano o ke kaikamahine āu e makemake ai e noho pū.
2. Ua puni ʻoe iā ʻoe i nā ʻano ʻē aʻe ʻole
ʻAʻole ia ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka mea makemake ʻole i kekahi mau mea e pili ana iā ʻoe iho. Nui aʻe ka nui o ia poʻe. Akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e hāʻawi ʻoe i nā mea nui aʻe i kāu insecurities. Wale no ke ʻōhule ʻana a i ʻole he kiʻekiʻe pōkole, ʻaʻole ia he kumu he waiwai ʻole ʻoe. Ma kahi o ka hopohopo e pili ana i nā ʻaoʻao maikaʻi ʻole o ʻoe iho, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka mea nui i nā mea āu e maikaʻi ai. ʻO kahi laʻana, akamai paha ʻoe, hana nui, hoʻohaʻahaʻa a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi. No laila, ʻaʻohe kumu o ka hoʻopuni ʻia e kāu insecurities.
3. Hoʻokolokolo pinepine ʻoe i nā kaikamahine ma ko lākou ʻano kino
Ma muli wale o ka ʻakaʻaka a kolohe paha o kahi kaikamahine iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokolokolo iā ia. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hana i nā manaʻo e pili ana i kekahi ma ke kumu o ko lākou ʻano kino. Inā ʻoe e launa me kahi kaikamahine no ka manawa mua a ʻōlelo e pili ana i kona ʻano kino e like me he mea lā, a laila ua hele ʻoe ma waho o ka liki. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokūpī i ke kaikamahine, poina e pili ana i ka pili.
4. Maikaʻi loa ʻoe i ka pili ʻana i ka pili wahine
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kiʻi kūpono ʻole o ke kaikamahine maikaʻi i kou manaʻo a makemake ʻoe e loaʻa ʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia, a laila ʻo ia nō kekahi o nā kumu i loaʻa ʻole ai kāu ipo wahine. ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e ʻae ʻoe i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka wā hiki. Ke manaʻo nei i nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi he nui i kahi kaikamahine āu e hui ai e hoʻohoka iā ʻoe no ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Pono ia iā ʻoe e haʻalele i kāu mau manaʻo kūpono ʻole a e hāmama i ka poʻe āu e launa pū ai.
5. Kolohe pinepine ʻoe i kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe
ʻO ka hana hoʻomāinoino i nā mea ʻē aʻe no ka leʻaleʻa a me ka leʻaleʻa ʻana hiki ke lawe i kahi hopena i kou ola. ʻO ka mea hope loa e makemake ai kekahi e hana i ka lā kolohe. No laila, inā he maʻa kāu o ka hoʻomāʻewaʻewa i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a hoʻomāʻewaʻewa paha iā lākou no ko lākou ʻano kino a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe, a laila kiʻekiʻe ka manawa ke haʻalele ʻoe i kēia ʻano. E hoʻāʻo e lilo i kanaka haʻahaʻa e like me nā kaikamahine e like me nā kāne akahai, ʻoluʻolu a maikaʻi hoʻi.
6. Hoʻoikaika nui ʻoe e lilo i kanaka kūlohelohe
E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai ma luna, ʻaʻohe kanaka i hānau maikaʻi ʻia, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hōʻike iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he kāne hemolele. Maikaʻi ke kuhi hewa a ʻano hemahema paha i kekahi manawa. Ma kahi o ka hoʻāʻo nui ʻana e lilo i kāne hemolele, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo ʻaʻole e hana hou i nā hewa a hana i kāu mau wahi nāwaliwali. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e hoʻohui i nā ʻano maikaʻi a poli i kou mākau. Eia kekahi, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻohoka ʻole ke hele hewa kekahi mea. Ma kahi o, e noʻonoʻo i nā ala i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaikaʻi i nā mea.
7. Hilahila loa ʻoe i ka neʻe mua ʻana
Inā komo ʻoe i loko, a laila hiki paha iā ʻoe ke alo i kekahi mau pilikia i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ipo wahine. E hele i waho o kāu wahi hōʻoluʻolu a hui i nā poʻe. Inā ua hoʻomohala ʻoe i kekahi mau manaʻo no ke kaikamahine a manaʻo ʻoe ke leʻaleʻa nei ʻo ia i kou launa pū ʻana, a laila pono ʻoe e leo e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo. E haʻi iā ia i kou ʻano e pili ana iā ia a makemake e lilo i mau manawa hou me ia. E hoʻāʻo e lilo i kanaka launa a ke kuʻi ʻoe i ka maka o ka bipi, e maikaʻi nā mea.
8. Hoʻokomo loa ʻoe i kāu hana
ʻO kou hoʻolaʻa ʻana i ka hana a me nā hola hana pupule kekahi kumu o ke aloha ʻole o kāu ipo wahine. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo aia aia kekahi honua e noho nei ma ʻō aku o kāu papapihi pona a me nā faila o ka keʻena. Maikaʻi ʻoe makemake e hana i kāu ʻoihana akā inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa kahi ipo wahine, a laila he mea nui e hoʻāʻo ʻoe e ʻaihue i kekahi manawa mai kāu hana.
9. Hoʻopiʻi pinepine ʻoe
ʻO wai e makemake e aloha i kahi mea hoʻopiʻi a me nā pēpē uē? ʻO kēia nō kekahi o nā huli huli nui loa e haʻalele iā ʻoe me ka ʻole o ka ipo wahine. Nui paha nā pilikia i kou ola e like paha me ka mea e hōʻeha ai a palupalu ai kou ola. Akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻōlelo e pili ana i mua o kēlā me kēia kaikamahine āu e hui pū ai. ʻAʻole makemake kekahi e hoʻolohe i kāu mau moʻolelo kaumaha. Pono ʻoe e kia i kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi o ke ola a haʻalele i ka namunamu e pili ana i nā mea.
10. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hana ma kou kino
E like me kou makemake e noho pū me kahi kaikamahine uʻi me ke kino olakino a maikaʻi hoʻi, ʻo nā kaikamahine e like me nā kāne kūpono a olakino hoʻi. ʻAʻole mākou e ʻōlelo ana he pono ʻoe e nānā e like me ka mea hana keaka a i ʻole ke kumu hoʻohālike. Akā noho kino a olakino ʻaʻole loa e hōʻeha iā ʻoe. ʻO ka hana mau ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana i ka papaʻai olakino ʻaʻole wale ia e kōkua iā ʻoe i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kino maikaʻi akā e hilinaʻi hoʻi iā ʻoe.
11. Makemake loa ʻoe e loaʻa ka uku
Inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi e ʻiʻini mau e hoʻomoe i kou wā e hui ai me nā kaikamahine, a laila loaʻa kahi manawa kūpono i ka loaʻa ʻole o kāu ipo wahine. Ke noi nei i ke kaikamahine e hele mai ma luna o kou wahi a i ʻole nā kihi e pili ana i ka hana ʻana e hōʻino ai i kou manawa e loaʻa ai kahi ipo wahine. ʻAʻohe kaikamahine e makemake e aloha i kahi kāne e mākaukau e hele ma lalo o nā pale i nā hālāwai mua.
Lana ko mākou manaʻo i kēia mau kumu i hōʻike ʻia aʻe nei e kōkua iā ʻoe i ke kālailai ʻana i ke kumu e hiki ʻole ai iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kekahi ipo wahine. He ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻomaikaʻi ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a lawe i kekahi mau loli maikaʻi. Akā ma luna o nā mea āpau, pono ʻoe e aʻo e aloha iā ʻoe iho a hilinaʻi.