ʻAʻohe ala maʻalahi e ʻōlelo ai i kēia. Eia nō naʻe, inā pilikia ʻoe i nā manawa a pau e pili ana iā ʻoe iho ma muli o kahi mea nui āu i ʻōlelo ai a i hana ai paha, a i ʻole ʻoe i ʻike pinepine i nā hanana maikaʻi ʻole e hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou, a laila ua maopopo ʻoe i kahi pilina ʻona. ʻO ka mea pōʻino loa, ʻo ka pilina ʻawaʻawa e manaʻo ai ʻoe ʻo nā mea leʻaleʻa a pau e hiki mai ana nau wale nō.
Ma kona ʻano maoli, manaʻo ʻia nā pilina e hoʻowaiwai iā mākou, kōkua iā mākou e ulu a maikaʻi. ʻO nā hoa like me nā aniani e kōkua iā mākou e nānā iā mākou iho i kahi mālamalama akaka, e haʻi mai iā mākou i ka wā a me kahi e nani ai mākou a kōkua iā mākou e nānā maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole mākou. ʻAʻole ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe.
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Inā ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole e uwē hou nā hōʻailona iā ʻoe mai ka pā akā mai loko mai o kou poʻo ponoʻī a ke hana nei ʻoe i nā mea āpau āu e hiki ʻole ai ke hoʻolohe, nānā a ʻike, a laila ʻike ʻoe i kona manawa e WALK OUT.
ʻO ka hele ʻana i waho o kahi pilina ʻawaʻawa hiki ke lilo i kekahi o nā hana koʻikoʻi loa, ʻoiai inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻo ʻoe wale nō. ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi. Pono ʻoe e ʻimi i ke kanaka kūpono e hilinaʻi ai a i ʻole kahi kūpono e ʻimi ai i kāu mea e pono ai ke hana. ʻO ke kākoʻo ʻana i nā manawa a pau.
Eia ka mea e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻolālā i kāu kaʻina puka me ka maʻalahi.
KaʻAnuʻu Hana 1: E hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻino iā ʻoe iho.
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E nīnau iā ʻoe iho no ke aha ʻoe e koho ai e noho i kahi kūlana, e haʻalele iā ʻoe i ka ʻino ma mua o ka wā ʻaʻole ʻoe i loko. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho hoʻokahi ma mua o ka manaʻo ʻana i ka hewa, ka weliweli, ka hilahila a me ke kaʻawale ʻana e ka mea āu e ʻimi nei e kūkulu i kahi pilina me. Ma nā wahi āu i manaʻo ai he hemahema, inā ʻoe e ʻike a ʻaʻole paha, ʻo ia kahi āu i manaʻo ai i ka ʻino. Ua ʻoi aku kou ikaika ma mua a ma waho o ka pilina ma mua o kēia manawa. E hoʻomaopopo i kēlā.
KaʻAnuʻu Hana 2: E huli i ka Achilles Heel.
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ʻO ka hapa nui o nā pilina ʻawaʻawa loaʻa kā lākou makau i loko o ke kanaka, ma muli o kahi i manaʻo ai kēlā kanaka e pono lākou e noho i ka pilina. E manaʻoʻiʻo nā wahine ʻo kā lākou hilinaʻi kālā i ke kāne, a i ʻole no nā keiki, a i ʻole ʻoi aku ka hewa o ka nohona. ʻAʻohe keiki makemake e ulu a ʻike i nā ʻano ʻawaʻawa o kekahi makua e hoʻopau ana i ka ikaika ola o kekahi. ʻAʻole lawa ka nui o ke kālā no kou waiwai ponoʻī. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻae i kēlā, a laila ʻo ka manawa kēia e hoʻōki i ka heluhelu ʻana i kēia ʻatikala. ʻO ka stigma kaiapili ke ala o ke kaiāulu e hoʻomalu iā ʻoe. E hoʻohuli i kēlā mea ma ka ʻike nui ʻana i ko lākou hilahila ponoʻī, a inā pono, e lawe maʻalahi i ka manaʻo o ka poʻe e ʻimi nei e hoʻopunipuni iā ʻoe ma ka hoʻoweliweli ʻana iā ʻoe i ka hoʻouna ʻana i ka mea a lākou e hoʻoholo ai he maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha.
KaʻAnuʻu Hana 3: Hoʻopili hou me nā ʻāpana kahiko a maikaʻi aʻe o ʻoe.
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Ma mua o ko mākou noho ʻana i kahi pilina ʻawaʻawa, aia kekahi mau ʻāpana o ko mākou ola i pili ʻole i ka pilina, i hāʻawi iā mākou i ka hauʻoli nui. Ma nā mea āpau, ua haʻalele ʻoe i kēlā mau mea. ʻO ka mea kūpono paha, no ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia e ka hoa ʻawaʻawa pono ʻoe e hana pēlā, pololei a i ʻole. E hoʻomaka koke i kekahi mea ma ia mau laina, ʻoiai inā he hewa ʻole e like me ka mahiʻai ʻana, a i ʻole kahi papa pūnaewele e aʻo i kahi ʻōlelo hou, a i ʻole e hāʻawi i nā haʻawina i nā keiki, a i ʻole ke kōkua ʻana i kahi ʻelemakule me nā mea maʻamau. E ʻimi i kahi ala e ʻimi ai i nā wahi kikoʻī ʻē aʻe (a i ʻole nā mea he nui) i kū ʻole a hauʻoli. E hauʻoli i kēia mau mea.
KaʻAnuʻu 4. Me ka mālie, kūkulu mālie i kahi kumu ma waho o ka pilina.
ʻO kahi āu e hilinaʻi ai no ka mokuna hou a maikaʻi o kou ola. ʻAʻohe hilahila i ka noho hoʻokahi. E lilo i kumu noʻonoʻo, kahi kālā, a i ʻole kahi kumu kino o nā hoʻonohonoho ola. He mea nui e hana mālie i kēia, ʻaʻole e ʻike i ka hoa ʻawaʻawa. E hoʻomaka i ka hoʻolālā mālie a me ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka lā āu e haʻalele ai. I kēia manawa, mai hana i kekahi mea e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea ʻē aʻe ke hoʻolālā nei ʻoe i kēia. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, e hoʻomau lākou i ka manaʻoʻiʻo he mana paʻa ko lākou ma luna ou.
KaʻAnuʻu 5: Haʻalele. Maʻalahi, hāmau a hikiwawe.
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Mai nana i hope. Mai ʻae iā lākou e launa hou me ʻoe a haʻi iā ʻoe i ko lākou kaumaha, e hana lākou i kekahi mea e hoʻihoʻi iā ʻoe, a e loli lākou. ʻAʻole lākou. E noi lākou, e noi, e hoʻoweliweli, a ma ka waha paha, e hoʻomāinoino i ke kino. E ʻike wale ʻoe, ʻo ka nui o kā lākou hana ʻino a me ka makemake e hahau iā ʻoe, ʻo ia ka nui o ko lākou kiʻekiʻe o ka weliweli a me ka haʻalulu i ka nalowale ʻana iā ʻoe. Ke manaʻo mau nei lākou iā ʻoe e lilo i ʻeke ʻeke a me ke kuʻi no ko lākou hilahila a me ka hana ʻino, a lākou e kū pono ai i kēia manawa. E noʻonoʻo i kēia, a e hoʻopaʻa pono me ia.
Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēia, ʻaʻohe kumu i loaʻa ʻole iā ʻoe kahi ala mālie i mua e ho'ōla i kēlā me kēia ʻāpana o kou puʻuwai e pono ai.